Adolescence is called a period of storm and stress. Happy-go-lucky children turn into brooding teens; sensitive, emotional, and opinionated by turns. Little wonder that a 2015 study by doctors of Post Graduate Institute of Medical Education and Research, (PGIMER), Chandigarh, found that nearly one-fourth (23.5%) of the teenagers surveyed had thought seriously of running away from home, while half (54%) were worried about problems at home.<\/p>\n
Trouble spots at home and school, be it parental discord, domestic violence, shaming, corporal punishment, ragging, or alcoholism, leave a lifelong scar on a young person\u2019s psyche.<\/p>\n
Mental health issues like depression, warns World Health Organisation (WHO), also increase a youngster\u2019s predilection to cardiovascular diseases and diabetes, among others. It warns: \u201cIf untreated, these conditions severely influence children\u2019s development, their educational attainments and their potential to live fulfilling and productive lives.\u201d<\/p>\n
Three years ago, Manu Chopra (name changed), then a Class 9 student at a reputed school in Chandigarh, developed breathing complications and restlessness along with fluctuating blood pressure.<\/p>\n
When his marks dipped, he approached his teacher, who referred him to the school\u2019s student counsellor. The counselling sessions spanning over a month, found that Manu\u2019s parents were on the verge of separation.<\/p>\n
Shangrila Dubey, who counselled him, counselled his parents about the effect their discord was having on Manu\u2019s health. She also roped in the extended family. The counseling worked and today Manu is in Class 12 and is performing well.<\/p>\n
WHO says there is a belief that people with mental health issues are \u201cdifficult, not intelligent, or incapable of making decisions\u201d.<\/p>\n
This stigma can result in abuse, rejection and isolation. It also makes parents reluctant to accept that something is wrong with their child.<\/p>\n
In fact, until the 1970s, mental health professionals believed that adolescents are incapable of experiencing depression. \u201cThey thought depression was exclusive to adults,\u201d says Dr Savita Malhotra, an expert on adolescent psychiatry at Fortis hospital, Mohali.<\/p>\n
Research has now established that children also experience depressive states, but its manifestations are not like adult depression.<\/p>\n
Dr Malhotra rues that in Chandigarh, a child is brought to a psychiatrist at a very late stage when severe damage has already been done; like the child stops going to school, becomes violent, suicidal, or resorts to substance abuse.<\/p>\n
The WHO says mental health problems are generally characterised by persistent sadness and loss of interest in activities that one normally enjoys, accompanied by an inability to carry out daily activities.<\/p>\n
In addition, youngsters may also report loss of energy, change in appetite, sleeping disorders, anxiety, loss of concentration, indecisiveness, restlessness, feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or hopelessness, and thoughts of self-harm or suicide.<\/p>\n
In most cases, the child undergoes a sudden behavioural change.<\/p>\n
\u201cA rapid decline in academic performance, poor concentration and refusal to attend school are the first symptoms,\u201d says Dr Damanjit Sandhu, president of Association of Mental Health Counsellors.<\/p>\n
In a study conducted in 2015, PGIMER doctors suggested that since in most cases self-harm behaviour is linked to inter-personal issues, there is an urgent need for enhancing parenting skill.<\/p>\n
Dr Malhotra says mental health problems can be handled at home if parents are understanding and spend time with children.<\/p>\n
\u201cParents shouldn\u2019t foist their views on children, but gradually make them understand the right and wrong,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n
Khushwant Singh, a father and an author based in Chandigarh, says, \u201cParents are themselves under pressure. But they must adopt a practical approach and not go overboard with their expectations.\u201d<\/p>\n
The parent-child relations, he says, suffer for want of communication. \u201cAsk the child to get 95% but don\u2019t make him feel guilty if he is unable to do so. Mental health issues arise largely when the child is made to feel guilty or inferior,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n
The PGIMER doctors underlined the \u201cneed to reduce the stress of performance, and not stigmatise failure in exams\u201d.<\/p>\n
The problem starts when the future becomes more important than the present, says Neelam Man Singh, a thespian and long-time Chandigarian. \u201cParents and teachers should also prepare children to accept failure and learn from it,\u201d she says.<\/p>\n
Experts also urged schools to hold interactive sessions where children, who have performed well in the past, share their experiences and challenges.<\/p>\n
\u201cChildren are more likely to share their concerns with their friends than elders,\u201d says Dr Prabha Vig of Panjab University, who had conducted a study on loneliness among Chandigarh teens in 2016.<\/p>\n
Dr Malhotra says it\u2019s not just the child, parents too need counselling as changes at home are vital for a youngster\u2019s recovery.<\/p>\n
The WHO called for school-based programmes to enhance positive thinking in children.<\/p>\n
\u201cA lot can be achieved if the teacher can simply tell the student who hasn\u2019t performed well that it is okay, and things can improve with some effort,\u201d says Dr Vig.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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